Татьяна Гокина (Saint Petersburg) Psychologe

Hello, how are you now? How are you doing in your life? Looks like it's not quite what you want, right? I know this can be scary and inconvenient. But I believe that unpleasant feelings are an important signal: it’s time to start changing something.

I am well aware of the strong desire to live the way you want, and the painful experience of not working out. And it is important to me that you live exactly the way that suits you. But this won’t happen by magic, it’s a whole journey that starts with understanding: “What really suits me?”, and goes through building an honest and safe relationship with yourself. It's not always easy, but we can walk this path together. I will be there in difficult moments and always on your side.

I think it is important for you to know a little more about me before deciding to meet. I am a clinical psychologist by training, after university I took additional courses, all the documents are below. I started counseling in my 4th year at the University Psychological Center. That’s when I started my journey in personal therapy and continue it now. For 4 years now this has ensured my personal maturity. And intervision and supervision help my professional development and stability.

We are on the same path, if anything from this list is similar to your thoughts:
- Who am I? How can I understand myself? How do I understand what I want?
- I no longer want to criticize myself, humiliate myself and engage in self-flagellation.
- I want to accept and love myself.
- I want to be myself and not depend on the opinions of others.
- I want to control my emotions (anger, guilt, fear, anxiety, etc.).
- I am not satisfied with my relationships with others.
- I want to be confident in myself.
- How to stop being lazy and learn to motivate yourself?
- Why do I give up when it’s difficult?
- Where can I find the strength to do what I need to do?
- Tired of controlling everything and doing it perfectly.
- I want to live as I want, and not as others say.

Below there are a couple more important points that you should familiarize yourself with.

I work in the format of individual meetings with adults (over 18 years old). Together we will select comfortable conditions for our meetings: in the office, outdoors or online.

Unfortunately, I cannot help you if you have one of the following queries:
- get rid of addiction (alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling addiction, etc.);
- fix your parents, spouse, children, etc.;
- survive betrayal, divorce or death of a loved one;
- You have become a victim of violence;
- you expect me to tell you how to live.

If you did not find your request in any of the lists, contact me, I will help you find your request.

You will find my contacts below. If I did not answer your call, write me an SMS: “I would like to make an appointment for a consultation” and indicate your name. I will contact you shortly.

If we are on the same path, then see you!
And if not, good luck in finding your psychologist! I believe that you will find it.